Experience Being Schmooshed

I am educated on a wide variety of subjects. From ancient manuscripts to IT security, public health, TikTok memes, and D/s dynamics, I'm comfortable chatting about just about anything. Intelligent and seasoned, I prefer to engage on an intellectual level. This applies inside and outside the dungeon.

With over 15 years of lifestyle BDSM experience, I've experienced kink as both a submissive and a Dominant. Over the last decade, I have embraced and cultivated my Dominant energy. Working as a professional Dominatrix since July 2020, I am sensual and capable of eliciting a response with just the tip of my finger. At the core, I am a true sadist. Nothing brings me more pleasure or a smile to my face like watching your body provide feedback to my ministrations.

Silly and sensual or serious and sadistic, I love building a variety of scenes and dynamics. My wardrobe is full of lingerie, latex, PVC, mesh, nylons/pantyhose, heels, boots, and sandals fitting to multiple fetishes. My interests and experience lay in:

Body Hair Worship


Breath Play

Cash Meets

Chastity and Key Holding

Cock and Ball Torture

Corporal Punishment

Couple's BDSM Consultation


Double Domme Duos (PHL/NJ only)

Electro Play

Face Sitting (no nude)

Fetish Sessions

Financial Domination

Foot Worship

Forced Feminization


Golden Showers

Human Furniture


Impact Play

Nipple Play

Pet Play

Protocol Training

Red Shower

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

Role Play

Rope Play


Sensation Play

Sensory Deprivation



Small Penis Humiliation

Strap Play

Tickle Torture


Worship (Armpit, Foot, Gloves, Latex, Shoe)

My current limits are:

Serious bodily injury

Forced bi with another party


Nudity on my part

Erotic worship

Blood play

Race play


Anything ending in "job"

Competitive wrestling

Sessions without safe words with subs of less than 6-12 months

I am DFW based and travel to multiple cities throughout the year, please inquire about sessioning at any of the below locations. FMTY is also available to other locations with all travel expenses pre-paid and 3 hour booking minimum.

Dallas, Texas: in-call at local hotels, dungeon info coming soon

Philadelphia, PA: The Gallery R

Brooklyn, NY: Deep Space

I am available for sessions from 1pm to 10pm. Early bird, very late night, and same day sessions require a fee.


Fetish Field Day

Fetish Field Day is an outdoor BDSM festival and community building event that I created in 2021.

Featuring educational demos, burlesque, kink performances, multiple kink stations, and local vendors, FFD provides an opportunity for local professionals, educators, and lifestyle players to gather in one place. FFD prioritizes consent, negotiation, inclusivity, and having fun trying new stuff with your friends.

With two successful events in Philadelphia so far, I look forward to hosting and producing more of these events in the future. If you'd like me to bring this event to your city, please reach out via my performance booking request form.


Coming Soon!

Mistress Smash at a Glance

Height - 5'7" barefoot, 6'2" in heels

Weight - 205 lbs

Shoe Size - 10

Bust - 40H

Waist - 37"

Hips - 45"

Dress Size - 16

Eyes: dark brown

Hair: dark brown, long

Tattoos: multiple

Piercings: multiple in ears


BA in Public Health, minor in Classical Studies




Spanish - conversational

Professional Associations

Frequently Asked Questions

How should I address You?

Mistress or Mistress Smash only.

What if I'm not a masochist?

No problem! BDSM is not limited only to inflicting physical pain, there are several specialities in my repertoire that feel very good!

Who did you train under?

I apprenticed with Mxstress Lilith and Lady Rouge Love in Philadelphia. I've also taken multi-disciplinary BDSM courses both in person and online with various Dominants across the US.

What can I expect from a session?

Your session will be booked after screening is completed and a deposit is received. You will receive the general location of the play space the night before and a full address the day of. All sessions begin with a consent based negotiation, including establishing safe words and/or actions. The remainder of the tribute is due upon entry.

How should I prepare for a session?

Please arrive freshly showered and groomed, with minimal cologne. Bring your tribute tucked into an envelop or your favorite book and place it as instructed upon entry. You will be asked to wash your hands. You will complete a quick check in negotiation and then come to your knees with your hands behind your back to begin the scene.

What happens if I'm running late?

Please be prompt. Tardiness will count against your total session time and extreme tardiness may result in a same day cancel fee. My time is not always flexible to extend the session in case of tardiness. If you arrive early, please wait in your car until it's time.

How can I ensure you'll accept my application to serve?

Get to know me before reaching out. Subscribe to my paid fan sites and follow me on social media. Send me a tribute or purchase a gift from my Wish List. Read my website in it's entirety including my offerings, limits, and tribute information. Fill out my application thoughtfully, completely, succinctly, and respectfully. Submit your deposit to the payment platforms on the connect page with your application.

Can I cancel and get my deposit back?

The deposit is non-refundable. It is a fee to book my time. If you need to reschedule and provide at least 3 days notice, your deposit may be used once to book a new session within 14 days.

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